mind your own business

1 Thessalonians 4:9-12

Love is a key word in this passage - particularly love for fellow believers. Paul is encouraged by the love the Thessalonian Christians are demonstrating for each other and for all their brothers and sisters in the region. Paul is concerned that they are getting a bit lazy and are starting to be busybodies. He reminds them that their love for their brothers and sisters and their work ethic will be two things that will win the respect of the general population.
I agree with Paul very strongly. People may not understand what we believe or the reasons why we meet together. They might not understand our traditions and our worship but they should be able to say that we love each other and that we are honest, hard working people. I am concerned when I look at the state of Christian's lives in my sphere of influence. There is a definite increase in selfishness and self-centerdness. There is an increased feeling of entitlement and the job market has made it very easy to demand much from the employer and give very little back. Friendships have always been a bit egocentric (what can this person do for me and my reputation?) but I see a greater willingness to walk away from people if the relationship is not of some benefit. I also need this reminder - especially during the summer. It's easier for me to slack off a bit because there aren't any urgent programming needs. However, I owe a decent day's work. The church deserves my best efforts and my honest efforts. I also must remember that my work is about people and not about programs and projects. Am I loving my brother and sister well?